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Andrea Joy Adams's avatar

Thank you for sharing this moving story, Julie. I’m so struck by the way the tenderness of a turtle can bring out the tenderness of humans. ā¤ļøšŸ¢ This is one of the many reasons why nature is so essential for our wellbeing.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thanks, Andrea. Though Testudo may be a strange choice as school mascots go, I prefer a turtle to just about anything else.

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Andrea Joy Adams's avatar

Absolutely! There is a sweetness to it, but also so much strength.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

. . . and generosity. I keep thinking about Robin Wall Kimmerer's story of Skywoman Falling from "Braiding Sweetgrass."

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

And this gem, found by following a link from Chris La Tray's post today: https://unitingthreefiresagainstviolence.org/the-7-grandfathers-teachin/ Turtle gets a nice mention, e.g. to understand the importance of both the journey and the destination and to know yourself.

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Donna McArthur's avatar

What an important anchor in the lives of those in your community. Art and beauty as a reminder that we are all swimming in the same ocean of life. I love that people leave the notes to lift other up, especially yours, and that they place offerings at the base.

We had a gorgeous Russian Olive tree in the center of our community that generations of children climbed on and all of our ceremonies centered around it. Sadly, a few years ago it was deemed unsafe and too old and had to be removed. A new tree has been planted yet it doesn't seem the same, yet.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Yes, I was swept up by appreciation of spontaneous community. I usually take such special anchors for granted. But our environment does affect us profoundly. That tree sounds like a dear companion. Very sorry for your loss.

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RenoQueen's avatar

Beautiful and poignantly written. It made me feel sad that people don't know who to turn to when they need help. But I was comforted that there was a familiar figure that the community had to lean on.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. Writing this reflection showed me the value of community as an antidote to loneliness and isolation.

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Sue Ferrera's avatar

This is quite lovely. Thank you for sharing. šŸ’•

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thanks for reading, Sue.

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Stacy Boone's avatar

Turtles often symbolize patience and protection, how appropriate that it is the anchor for campus community. That it provides a safe place to share notes and reminders of post-it notes and folded pieces of notebook paper. Lovely writing.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thanks for reading, Stacy. I think it was through writing this that my appreciation for Testudo and all turtles deepened. šŸ’š

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Gail V. Ritchie's avatar

Oh, Julie! I’m sitting in my living room, crying for a person I never met. Thank you for your reminder that we all need to tell our fellow human beings ā€œYou are not alone. You are so loved. We are proud of you.ā€

So, as your sister who loves you and appreciates you, I want you to know: You are not alone. You are so loved. I am proud of you.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Awwww!! Thank you! Right back atcha!! ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

It was very moving. I was glad to be wearing sunglasses as I walked around the sculpture. 😢

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Tara Penry's avatar

Oh, Julie, what a day for your campus. I love where your instinct brought you with the shock of a student’s loss. I’m glad to know about Testudo, and sorry for the torn fabric of your campus community.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thank you, Tara. Wish I could claim some deep intuition but, really, I was on my way to the cafe inside the library for a post-class coffee. 😊 That said, I'm happy to acknowledge larger forces at play.

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